Whenever something bad happens, we almost too often say that it was uncontrollable or the ever so famous line “if it weren’t for [insert subject / person / event / situation here], I would’ve been/had [insert desire / goal / dream here]”.
Are you really that weak to not have some control over what happens in your life? Seriously? And you’d rather accept that you can’t do anything about it? Why?
Start taking responsibility for your own life. You are the maker of your destiny. Start taking control back by thinking of what you can do for you than pointing fingers and complaining about what they have done to you.